30 days

30-day In-the-moment reset

Build a 30-day in-the-moment skill: when you get upset, let the thought pass instead of following it into anger.

Upset moments met with a return

The same Highway skill, sequenced for real situations: notice the heated thought, let it pass, and return before you follow it into the fight.

For the moment you start to get angry, upset, or spun up: one short move you can use in real life.

Program outcomes are practice goals for a self-guided observer habit. CONA is not therapy, diagnosis, crisis support, or a promised medical result.

Before you enroll

The outcome, milestones, and percent are visible before you pay or enroll.

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Milestones

Milestone 1 · day 7

When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer. Mark day 7 complete to lock this checkpoint.

Milestone 2 · day 14

Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it. Mark day 14 complete to lock this checkpoint.

Milestone 3 · day 21

Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion. Mark day 21 complete to lock this checkpoint.

Milestone 4 · day 30

Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument. Mark day 30 complete to lock this checkpoint.

Day-by-day plan

Day 1 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 1: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 2 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 2: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 3 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 3: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 4 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 4: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 5 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 5: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 6 · week 1
Highway Basics
Day 6: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 7 · week 1
Return to the Whole Road
Day 7: When irritation starts, step to the roadside before you answer.
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Day 8 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 8: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 9 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 9: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 10 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 10: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 11 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 11: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 12 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 12: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 13 · week 2
Highway Basics
Day 13: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 14 · week 2
One Car Catches Your Eye
Day 14: Name the angry car, then let it leave without chasing it.
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Day 15 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 15: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 16 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 16: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 17 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 17: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 18 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 18: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 19 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 19: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 20 · week 3
Highway Basics
Day 20: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 21 · week 3
Traffic Without Following
Day 21: Use the same move in a tense conversation, not only on the cushion.
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Day 22 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 22: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 23 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 23: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 24 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 24: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 25 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 25: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 26 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 26: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 27 · week 4
Highway Basics
Day 27: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 28 · week 4
Open Watch
Day 28: Return after a spike so the rest of the day is not the argument.
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Day 29 · week 5
Highway Basics
Day 29: Practice the move on ordinary weekday friction.
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Day 30 · week 5
Return to the Whole Road
Day 30: Practice the move on ordinary weekday friction.
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